WHO IS A SLAY QUEEN?
A slay queen is a girl with brains & not the one purple lavender outfits for flower girl
with heavy make up on. She is not the one who
seeks for attention on social media. She is the
one who uses tenses correctly and appropriately.
Not the one that has to shorten every word
because she doesn't know how to spell.
She is a girl with a skill...
She is the girl who respects her relationship or
marriage. She is never heard but seen . You know
her from what she does and not what she says.
She is not the most expensively dressed but she
is the most decently dressed. A slay queen
respects the sanity of womanhood. She carries
herself with much dignity.
Having so many likes on your pictures doesnt
make you a slay queen, wearing heavy makeups
doesn't make you a slay queen, looking like a
flower girl, a dog or a polio victim doesn't make
you a slay queen either. Most of these so called
Snapchat/IG girls are empty inside. They keep on
regretting a lot about their past but pretend to
be happy outside their home.
Stop boasting about the number of men that
want you, stop boasting about the number of
likes/ reactions you get on your pictures, stop
boasting about the number of followers you
have on IG, Twitter, Facebook, Snapchat etc.
Remember that cheap articles have more buyers.
Build yourself into the woman that people will
always respect and admire.
Never follow the crowd but be yourself. Be bold
but humble, be Godly, be hard working, respect
your relationship or marriage, be ambitious
but contented, dont make men your priority
in life but build yourself into the woman that
men will always want to take home to their
mama , not the one they only want to take to
hotels and clubs. Don't allow the number of likes,
reactions and followers on your social media
platform validate your existence.
Trust me, if you just trap a man with your body,
he will go one day because more pretty girls are
becoming adults on a daily basis. Let men fall for
your personality and not your bedmatics.
No, I'm not saying being trendy is trashy, but do
you also slay in your academics? Did your boobs
get you grades or your brains? Having a selling
point is good, but let that selling point be that
which can never go out of fashion. Let it be
something that will always attract the right kind
of people with corresponding attitudes to you.